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You know, as a former user of the ashley madison site, it wasn’t a scam. I met some very interesting men from the site. I guess you dont always find a partner, but I was extremely fortunate. You might want to see some interesting ashley madison reviews
You’re probably the only real female on the system. Like the other person commented the scam is aimed at men not women.
It seems like most “positive” reviews are made up and the negative one’s are the most honest sounding, i.e. look at the website I found with negative reviews from one guy who started another site – its the link in my website box.
The scam is aimed at men not women Amanda. Ashley Madison’s entire business model has been created to perpetrate a fraud. There are quite simply nowhere near enough women looking to cheat as men so they always knew they’d have to even out the numbers by systematically generating thousands of fake female profiles and automating the system so that men got magically messaged by their dream women just before their credits run out. When unscrupulous people sell fictitious concert tickets online they’re prosecuted. When Ashley Madison effectively do the same thing they get away with it! Go figure?!!
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My husband went to Ashely Madison. He ended up having an affair with “Nikki” for a year and a half before I found out. Turns out that was a fake name, and everything else she told him was also made up. We are trying to work this out and not split up, but only time will tell. She not only has ruined a great relationship, she also gave him a STD. If these people are going to be putting it out there, they should be screened for disease on a regular basis. I hope people wise up to this trashy website.
Hi Shirley,
I’m investigating AM.com for a possible lawsuit. Are you interested?
Hi Jon,
My wife Barbara went to AM and she actively pursued a one night stand for her pleasure because I was sick and unable to perform. That hasn’t changed but my relationship with her is unrecoverable.
Shirley, as bad as that is about your husband, It wasn’t the website or “Nikki” that ruined a great relationship, your husband did that himself. He went there Looking to cheat, it didn’t come looking for him. He wasn’t a victim, he was an active participant. Don’t be mad at the girl he cheated with, be mad at HIM!!!
For what they’re getting for their money from Ashley Madison, the stupid married men that join would be better off phoning a sex chat line, paying a hooker or buying a blow up doll!!
My law firm is considering filing a class action lawsuit against Avid Life Media, which owns and operates Ashley Madison. It is our belief that Ashley Madison is, in part, a scam that fraudulently solicits men and woman to pay to view “collect messages,” from fake profiles created by the site. Upon paying for credits to view messages from “interested” men/women, the user ends up finding that the profile is a fake. Ashley Madison, knowing its site is a fraud, hides behind the fact that most people are unwilling to come forward about the site for fear of exposing the fact that they were seeking an affair. If anyone is interested in speaking with me about their experience please contact me at ChrisMash1980@yahoo.com.
I like your header. Why is it so hard for people to just talk to their partner about being unhappy? Most people I know married their significant other because they loved them. Why would you want to hurt the person you married by having an affair behind their back? I know people fall out of love sometimes but I’m also pretty sure it is a gradual process and a process that can be reversed when we communicate and work to meet each other’s needs. I have to say when I first heard Of Ashley Madison I felt sad. Then I though W.T.F.? I bet this doesn’t last long. Most people will think this is just gross and wrong. I guess I was the one who was wrong.
You don’t need an affair; you need to learn how to love your partner again.
first i am not married so no cheeting here! i did not want a LTR
jest to meet some one who also did not want a long term relationship
AM has their credits you buy but they may as well say a $ amount for every thing you want to do
many many emails youhave to pay for to read and most only say
hello email me … and the few that did respond sounded like bot’s
never never never did i get a real live response in almost 6 mos..
i last signed with 5 credits.. now i can not find out who is messageing me with out signing a waver of class action law suit and agreeing to binding arbation in canada snow back country whos laws may not favor americians
i closed the window with out agreeing and looked for information on law suit
and gee am joinging one or the other and dont care if i get money back or not
i jest want to sting the dam people who are taking advantage of men who are hurting … yep.. go get’em lawyers!!! yea !!!!
I am a guy. Married 26 years. Very happy with my relationship with my wife, but she was raised Baptist…North Carolina Baptist…and her idea of rocking sex is rather lame. A.M. has been fabulous for meeting women in a similar situation and satisfying that need in each of our lives. No married woman I’ve met on A.M. has wanted to change her situation or mine. It’s just sex.
You must be an employe of AM like I said I put up a picture of a very good looking model and have not received one message from any w
Ashley Madison is a website to scam men out of there money. I did an experiment through there web site, I first made a fake ad from a male seeking an affair. The only responds I received were from a few fake female profiles, You can tell the fake ads it’s the ones that are up for a long time. The profile picture that I put was a very good looking guy, who would have no problem finding women. The next experiment that I did was that of a female seeking an affair. You can not believe the responds that I received it was unbelievable in two weeks that I had the ad up I received over two thousand messages including winks. The guys that would send messages were so pathetic I felt really sorry for them that they would waste their money on this scam. My advice to all guys out there who feel they must join this site, please only buy the smallest amount of time because it’s all money down the drain, they say that they guarantee you an affair but you have to buy the max amount of credits $250. If you read their are conditions. They also know that their is nothing that you will do if you don’t find someone. What are you going to do take them to court, I’m sure your wife and friends will be trilled and be very supportive of you,
They have there asses covered read all the fine print on the agreement, they even tell you that some of the replys to ads are fake. Plus with there money they can afford the best lawyers so don’t bother
I am a female who is described as in a dull marriage but I attempted to reconcile my marriage for several years but had been unsuccessful, even did the counseling, therapy, etc. He said it was all me. It was because of about 5 months ago that he acted in such a way that finally was the straw that broke the camel’s back. Then I happened to search for something new and found Ashley Madison. I setup a profile, added my picture, got responses and even chatted with a couple of men. Then setup a meeting with one, and found out that he lied on his profile about (no explanation). So the comments about men getting ripped off are not even close to what I have been ripped off from. I paid for the rooms (in my name), wanted only one and was told I was the only one and found out he had multiple women he wanted, he wanted discreet but I know everything about him (which I could use but remember this is mutually discreetness). The men on AM say that women have the power but that is a lie because I think that this encourages men to have multiple partners so if they get bored with you they will move on. Women are less likely to sleep around and want just one guy to ensure the discreetness. I was told that I was wonderful but he still wanted others. Honestly, how many times can you get away from your spouse to have multiple partners? Men are definitely thinking with the wrong head!!!
So I was all for the site at first, but now it is a scam that men are playing on women. They are playing the field and their playground is getting pretty full. They are going to have to watch who they might tease, please and release next. The outcome isn’t going to be pretty someday.
They can’t be playing the field because 95% of the female profiles are fakes, so there is no playground to play in!!
Not necessarily true. Some sites, like PrivateAffairs (which also has an active discussion forum attached to it) have very few fakes. Not shilling for it, have tried AM as well. PoF also has fewer fakes.
I am a women that is losing her family because of this shit!! My husband has been on the site for years and now my 10 month old is losing his family and beautiful home because of this site! I am starting a petition to file class action lawsuit on this site. I need any information I could use. If there are women who are going through something similar and have proof of their spouses on this site contact me.
Too bad I did’nt see this sooner. My 3 little kids 8,8 and 7 are currently losing daddy from the same thing. Find new passon.com too. Thats how I busted him. We lost our home and our dad. I have proof and it coming to court with me.
Yeah and for you people that have anything stupid to say keep your crap to yourself. I am amazingly hot and was a great wife but he got a kick out of being unfaithful. So serious comments only. I am doing more research and I will have them pay me for what they have done to myself and many other good wives out there!! Hurry!!!
The site is real. My husband was on the site and had affairs with 2 women and was working on a third when he was caught.
How did it work for you Im going thru the same thing. I read the emails between him and the cheater from Ashley Madison, She knew he was a cheater, then she got mad at him for standing her up for their usual lunch for cheating on her! Yup the cheating continued. What a shock when I saw how much he loved her kisses on the phone I bought him. What a joke! That was a year and a half ago. I found out 5 months ago, Now we are getting divorced. Glad to be rid of him after 12 years. Too ad my 3 little kids lose their daddy.
Go back to your AM office and leave this site for people who really got scammed
I’m firmly believing that Ashley Madison has shown it’s hand as a scam.
Twice in less than 24 hours, I’ve had to contact the sight about charges against my checking account that they claim I requested….. one for their maximum amount of credits which I never signed up for and the second for a reaccurring charge (to replenish the credits). I immediately contacted the website on each issue as soon as I was aware of what was occurring. They supposedly eliminated the first charge and followed up with an email indicating that they had removed the charge….. I immediately contacted my bank and informed them about what was occurring. Then less than 24 hours later another charge appeared claiming to be for the same thing….. the purchase of the maximum of credits. My eyebrows raised and again, I immediately contacted the website….. they claimed that I had the option for replenishing the credits once they were depleted. Fortunately, I know that they’re lying through their teeth because when I signed up recently I specifically went through their webpage and made certain that, that specific option was not selected as “ON” for replenishment of the credits. The customer service rep insisted that it was left on and I informed her that it wasn’t. She supposedly deleted the charge….. Again, I immediately contacted my bank and have noted that these 2 charges of $249.00 are still pending. It’s time for a letter to Ashley Madison and if necessary to take legal action. Once I’ve got my funds back, I’ll delete my profile and walk away from this b.s…… I have met some rather nice ladies so far, but I think I’ll just go ahead and get a real life instead. I haven’t got time for fraudulent business practices.
I’m a 40-something attractive man who has been on AM for about 4 months and I love it. True, it’s not for everyone, but I don’t see the scam level that other people are complaining about here.
I’ve had 4 encounters in these 4 months, 3 very good and 1 sorta weird. Just like a bar, I would imagine.
Ashleymadisonsucks.com is in itself a scam!! Haventyou guys notices how almost all the posts start outnegative.. But end up praising the site somehow! Its reversemarketing ppl! And how conveniently they’re all posted by the same person.. john… Who claims to receivethese stories via email. RUBBISH
I am AM member who paid my hard earned money for them. After months of using Ashley Madison, I found it really sucks! It has so many fake members who will send you collect mails (that has only content of “chat now?), winks, admirations or chat request… attempting to make you pay for membership or to make you spend your credit. If you look carefully, they are usually online all day and play the game for Ashley Madison and they never respond back to your replies. There are also lots of undesirable members who are not even worth to contact. Now if you get rid of the fakes and undesirables (too fat, too small, too big, too old, too ugly, too strange …..of course they are all free members wasting your time and credit), I guess only 10% or less of the female numbers they claim would be the normal people. So far, I responded to 11 persons who initiated to contact me and only 1 of them looked like a real person and I was not even successful with that person due to too much competition – maybe 10 men for 1 real woman. Ashley Madison sucks and it is almost a scam!!! Don’t waste your time and money.