Unfortunately when you’re dealing with deception, the best way to find out the truth is by staging a little counter-deception of your own. In my past, I had some instances in my quest for the truth. I was lucky enough to have a great friend with whom I could confide this and someone to sit at “stakeouts” with.
Gee, it sounds so bad when I say this stuff, however “necessity is after all the mother of invention”. A girl’s gotta do what a girl’s gotta do.
You have to pick and choose your moments carefully. If the cheat has set himself up to be occupied for a good long time i.e. going to a stag, or going to a ball game; then you can be pretty sure he’ll be occupied and not calling you to make sure you are where you’re supposed to be. It helps to borrow someone’s car that isn’t as familiar to him as yours. You may have to be ready with a cover story in case he tries to call you at home and gets no answer.
Above all else, be safe and don’t take unnecessary chances. Once a cheat, always a cheat. If you don’t catch him this time, you’ll catch him another time when the odds are more in your favour.
Note to self: Remember to check your batteries in your cell phone or camera before you leave the house. You never know when you’re gonna capture a Kodak moment. 🙂