For some no doubt, this blog or others like it are a forum to take something back that they’ve lost to their cheating spouse. A place to let ‘er fly and get things off their chest! No problem with that. For me personally, this is a way for me to show the levels of deception that it takes to conceal a long time cheating relationship. It’s also for information and sharing…..not a personal vendetta. This is NOT about destroying any relationships that my ex might pursue both past and present. It IS,however,where lies and myths can be abolished. In their place hopefully a chance to have a fresh slate and new, healthy relationships. It’s also about accountability where the cheaters actions are concerned. My one regret for my ex is his inability to come clean, tell the truth and then consequently be the father-figure that my child can be proud of. Some truth and humility in his life would serve him well. There’s a lot to be said for setting good character examples for your children. Many of us already know, that in order to start anew, we must be willing to look inside ourselves for a truer picture. If you’ve done any personal soul-searching throughout your trials and tribulations in life, you will know exactly what I’m speaking about. You’ve got to get rid of all the fluff and get down and dirty with who you really want to be in this life and form some sort of gameplan for yourself in order to achieve it. Each of us will have unique answers to this and that’s understandable as we are all individuals…..
Thank goodness. If we were all human clones of each other, how boring this life would be!