Consistent Uncertainties

Never underestimate your power to heal with a kind smile or hurt with a simple word.

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The Drop Zone

Getting over a good or bad relationship sometimes is not the easiest thing to do. In fact there are those that argue that it’s one of the most frustrating, devastating, nerve-wracking times of their life. There is a reason that separation and divorce is ranked right up near the top after death of a loved one and moving as major causes of anxiety, stress and depression. Continue reading


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Cheaters Never Prosper

Hmm…if you’ve been dumped, cheated on or lied to; it may seem that the direct opposite is true. Being the worthy and honest “dumpee”  can leave the victim disheartened to say the least. Maybe it seems like you can do nothing right!

WRONG! Continue reading

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Liar, Liar…Pants on Fire!

The unfortunate and sad truth of the matter in our lives we all encounter people who lie to us. There are different justifications form a liar’s viewpoint…to protect you or your feelings, keep you from finding something out, protect themselves from some perceived threat or blame or to cause you harm. Regardless of the liars reasoning behind their wild tales or denials, the end result will leave a bad taste in your mouth. Continue reading

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Gypsies,Tramps and Thieves

This article is dedicated to a strong woman who has overcome and one who I am fortunate to be able to call a friend.

A song title yes; but a very apt description of a sociopath (now referred in psychiatric terms as a person afflicted with an “antisocial personality disorder”).This type of individual carries all the charm and mystery of a perceived “gypsy-like” way of living. They move freely among us; charming all in their path and disarming them to the point of distraction. Continue reading

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Do Nothing?!

And the saga continues….My newly married ex is back from the honeymoon continuing his antics with other women (the day after returning home) and his ruse of conducting “business” meetings in the evening is no doubt alive and well. Continue reading

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Broken Promises; Forgotten Dreams

bizarre_love_triangleAnother example of how love triangles end badly can be illustrated with the following true story. It’s a story of deceit, cheating and violent behaviour. It is also about cultural differences and shows how hope and pride can be the downfall of many. Hope that the relationship can be mended. Pride in the fashion of a man, new to the country, putting his pain aside for the sake of his parents and friends approval.

A man who once shared an apartment with his love interest and her husband admitted to stabbing her after she tried to end her relationship with him. Continue reading

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Will All The Good Guys Please Step Forward!

How do you tell the good from the bad? Maybe we should look within ourselves first. What are we looking for in a relationship? Are we consistently looking for the wrong kind of guy. You know the one I mean. Continue reading