Consistent Uncertainties

Never underestimate your power to heal with a kind smile or hurt with a simple word.


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Souls 4 Sale

It’s amazing how available we make our souls in this day and age. Nobody is unaware totally that there are persons lurking around out there who will happily trade our souls and good faith and cash it in for their own gains. I’m not talking about relationships where there is a balance of give and take, but rather the ones in which you give, give, give. Continue reading

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Finding Answers

I found in this process of dealing with the woes of the past that I kept coming up against the same old mental blocks. If you’ve been following the blog, you will know that my ex was rather fond of not giving straight answers and in many instances telling almost total fabrications with just enough truth to keep you guessing. Maybe the proper word is second-guessing. That was an ongoing pattern for almost the entire time I knew this man and still would be today had I not taken matters into my own hands. Continue reading


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Excuses and Explanations

One of the hardest things to let go of for me was the feeling of failure that I had over the failure of my marriage. True it was not my fault that my ex had a sociopathic lifestyle; however I would often re-visit how I could have done things differently. As a teen was I too innocent and was my self-esteem so low that I couldn’t see the writing on the wall with my relationship to him? Or was it simply the case that I loved too much and too blindly? When I look back now almost 30 years later, Continue reading


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The Elusive Truth!

Finally two years later, the much debated story of whether or not John Edwards is the baby daddy of his mistress’ child has been confirmed by his camp. It cannot help but make one wonder at the complexities of this kind of arrangement. In the age of the internet and the sheer publicity of this affair; how will that child understand the news clips for the last two years of John Edwards denying that this child is his child. Will that not have a negative impact on the life of this child at some point.  Low self-esteem is often an issue that raises its head at some point in a person’s life. How, when faced with the truth that her father lied or denied his involvement, will that affect her as she matures? Other issues such as his own children and wife hearing about how beautiful his new daughter is will be hurtful. All things aside; this family has endured the loss of a son and a battle with terminal cancer. What kind of a man piles this kind of hurt on top of that?

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Resilience

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The Truth?

Every now and then the National Enquirer gets something right. For months, the allegations have been flying about the extra-marital affair that Senator John Edwards had while his wife Elizabeth was fighting a courageous battle with cancer. Here is the ABC nightline interview aired in 2008 in which John finally stops denying the rumours…..but have we yet to hear the full truth? Will we ever know the truth or will we be stuck in the twilight zone hearing only John Edward’s version of the truth…

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The Deadbeat Parent

This term has become commonly used both by laymen and by the judicial system. It commonly refers to the parent who is not contributing monetarily to their child’s custodial parent. It’s true there are many men and some women out there who feel that the rules don’t apply to them; but there are some justifiably who cannot afford to pay child support in the conventional sense. Perhaps they give when they have it or actively share in the extra expenses. Continue reading