What happens when east meets west; when the polar opposites with so much in common meet on common ground. One might expect sparks to fly and certainly they may have if not for the passage of time and the unanswered questions hanging in the balance. Such is the case in our story. The lives of two women dramatically damaged and intertwined by the fates. Welcoming a man into their lives who had no interest other than propelling himself and his self-image; who was interested only in his own gains. This blog is the fruition of this collision of the two worlds. One of the unfortunate women who on a chance encounter entered into a dangerous relationship with a man who professed an unequalled and undying love. While at the same time, he tormented her in every way possible. Financially, emotionally and physically. The second woman; a wife left in a pregnancy and abandoned to raise the child by herself. Living in a shadow of emotional abuse and threats; alone to try to buffet the storms of financial debt. These worlds did not collide so much as provide an answering call. The call that would once and for all answer the questions and put the lies in prospective. This blog is the culmination of our worlds meeting and joining in a common purpose. Cheatbuster meets Victoria! To say it has been enlightening would be the gravest of all understatements. A chance to have some honesty come forth from the years of deception, pain and chaos has been balm to calm the ghosts from the past. The lady who I was once led to believe was the enemy has now become a close and dear friend. Cheers to you and cheers to the both of us who have moved into a calmer, gentler phase of our life. We continue to share some of the crazy, wild stories. The difference now, is that we are able to laugh about how outrageous the lies were and commiserate on how naive we were. We have left the guilt and the unanswerable behind. It’s not ours to shoulder anymore!