Ever notice how people you try and explain your past situation to just do NOT get it. You can tell if you’re watching their facial expressions or some kind of hollow sound in their voice. I’m a firm believer in the thought that in order to get past your crap in the past, you need to talk to someone who REALLY gets it! It’s funny because you can see a shadow cross someone’s eyes when you’re telling them something that they just don’t understand. I think it’s the reason that there are so many help lines and group sessions available for those who have ended or are dealing with an abusive mate. If you see the blogroll links on the bottom right of the main page; you will see that I’ve linked to quite a few other blogs. There are others linking to mine and I have new ones pop up weekly that I feel can offer some insights and a place to know that of all things…..YOU ARE NOT ALONE! The players names change and the circumstances might be slightly different; but the truth of the matter is that if you have been abused, you will find some commonality on at least one of these sites. The common thread through anyone of them is communication!!! The less you talk about something that is affecting you so deeply; the more it gets its claws into you and does damage. Abuse and infidelity is a global issue affecting so many. So why do we bother talking about something that is so rampant and out of control? I can tell you why I do it. It’s because if just a handful see it and it impacts them to make a positive change for themselves in their lifetime; the hours of visiting fellow bloggers and writing articles makes it all worthwhile. It’s not that I’m pretending to be a saint or anything stupid like that. It’s a way of offering something back to a fellow man. That’s it in a nutshell!
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