Consistent Uncertainties

Never underestimate your power to heal with a kind smile or hurt with a simple word.


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The Exploits And Misadventures Of Onion Boy – 14

The layers of deception run deep; outwardly you would be none the wiser

Random snippets of real life drama with an ex-husband who lived to lie and cheat and cover his tracks and situations where he financially, emotionally and physically abused. As in many things in life, the truth was buried…buried deep within the layers of the infamous cheater who we will call Onion Boy (O.B. for short). We will strip away the layers for all to see the loser is not the victim but the man who believes he can lie so well that he will never be caught…

During my daughter’s first years, Onion Boy (her father) was seldom seen at family occasions…let alone other days of the week. Despite having taken up residence a mere 10-15 minutes away. The door at his parent’s place where I lived with my daughter was always open to him Continue reading


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Crown Wraps Up Its Case In Tori Stafford Murder Trial

The crown has completed their phase of presenting evidence and witnesses in the trial of Michael Rafferty. The 31 year old man is charged with kidnapping, sexual assault and murder in the death of 8 year old Tori Stafford.

The 8 year old was allowed to walk home a short distance from school on that day, in fact the first day she had been permitted to do so, and was reported missing a short time later.

The key witness in the trial against Rafferty was his ex-girlfriend, Terry-Lynn McClintic, who told the court that she delivered the fatal blows following Rafferty’s sexual assault on the youngster. In previous conversations, McClintic suggested that she take the entire blame for the crime to Rafferty, stating that she had nothing to lose. A statement that she later recanted on with police.

Store and surveillance video footage was used to place Rafferty and his car Continue reading


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Tori Stafford Murder Trial, Now In Its Eighth Week, Resumes With More Evidence

ImageCredit to National Post – LONDON, Ont. — The trial of a man charged in the abduction, sexual assault and death of eight-year-old Victoria (Tori) Stafford resumes Wednesday with more evidence.

Michael Rafferty, 31, has pleaded not guilty to all charges related to the disappearance of the Grade 3 student.

On Tuesday, the proceedings, now in their eighth week, were set aside to hear legal arguments. The content of those arguments is under an automatic publication ban until jurors begin their deliberations at the end of the trial.

Michael Rafferty, 31, has pleaded not guilty to all charges related to the disappearance of the Grade 3 student.

Stafford was last seen with a woman outside her elementary school Continue reading


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Ashley Madison Offers To Sponsor Toronto Zoos

From TORONTO SUN – High Park could become home to a heavy petting zoo if one company offering sponsorships money gets its way.

Noel Biderman, the CEO of Ashley Madison, the adultery-enabling dating website, said Tuesday he will pay the $220,000 needed to save the Far Enough Farm on Centre Island — and any additional funds required to keep High Park Zoo operational — if he has control of the naming rights. Continue reading


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Embracing Choice

Hello friends, it’s been quite some time since i wrote something a little more personal. Sometimes, it’s easier to write about others and their troubles and remove yourself from the spotlight to regroup. Maybe you won’t want to read, maybe you will. Maybe it’ll mean something to you or maybe it’ll just be the ramblings of some stranger. I happened across this saying on a facebook friend’s status and found myself (internally) pumping fist in the air and shrieking at the top of my lungs (again internally) the words “DAMN STRAIGHT!!” in reaction to the “I Choose” spiel that i had just read. But then, i began to think to myself that there was some sort of cosmic pull or some time shift (sorry, admitted trekkie fan over here) holding me back. Realizing that it was my inner self ruining my “AHA” moment, i felt myself getting superbly pissed of at my overzealous psyche horning in on all those warm and fuzzy feelings. But then, like a punch in the gut, Continue reading