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 After a full day of deliberations, the jury in the Michael Rafferty trial have reach a verdict. The nine women and three men panel of jurors have deliberated past their designated 9pm cut-off to bring in the final word. The jury has spoken, View full article »

Accused killer Michael Rafferty’s life hangs in the balance as nine women and three men deliberate whether the now 31-year-old is guilty. He’s charged in the kidnapping, sexual assault and death of 8 year old Woodstock, Ontario’s Victoria Stafford in April 2009.

What the jury does not know in this horrific case are the facts that were suppressed by the defence attorney View full article »

The layers of deception run deep; outwardly you would be none the wiser

Random snippets of real life drama with an ex-husband who lived to lie and cheat and cover his tracks and situations where he financially, emotionally and physically abused. As in many things in life, the truth was buried…buried deep within the layers of the infamous cheater who we will call Onion Boy (O.B. for short). We will strip away the layers for all to see the loser is not the victim but the man who believes he can lie so well that he will never be caught…

During my daughter’s first years, Onion Boy (her father) was seldom seen at family occasions…let alone other days of the week. Despite having taken up residence a mere 10-15 minutes away. The door at his parent’s place where I lived with my daughter was always open to him View full article »

The crown has completed their phase of presenting evidence and witnesses in the trial of Michael Rafferty. The 31 year old man is charged with kidnapping, sexual assault and murder in the death of 8 year old Tori Stafford.

The 8 year old was allowed to walk home a short distance from school on that day, in fact the first day she had been permitted to do so, and was reported missing a short time later.

The key witness in the trial against Rafferty was his ex-girlfriend, Terry-Lynn McClintic, who told the court that she delivered the fatal blows following Rafferty’s sexual assault on the youngster. In previous conversations, McClintic suggested that she take the entire blame for the crime to Rafferty, stating that she had nothing to lose. A statement that she later recanted on with police.

Store and surveillance video footage was used to place Rafferty and his car View full article »

ImageCredit to National Post – LONDON, Ont. — The trial of a man charged in the abduction, sexual assault and death of eight-year-old Victoria (Tori) Stafford resumes Wednesday with more evidence.

Michael Rafferty, 31, has pleaded not guilty to all charges related to the disappearance of the Grade 3 student.

On Tuesday, the proceedings, now in their eighth week, were set aside to hear legal arguments. The content of those arguments is under an automatic publication ban until jurors begin their deliberations at the end of the trial.

Michael Rafferty, 31, has pleaded not guilty to all charges related to the disappearance of the Grade 3 student.

Stafford was last seen with a woman outside her elementary school View full article »

Ashley Madison Offers To Sponsor Toronto Zoos

From TORONTO SUN - High Park could become home to a heavy petting zoo if one company offering sponsorships money gets its way.

Noel Biderman, the CEO of Ashley Madison, the adultery-enabling dating website, said Tuesday he will pay the $220,000 needed to save the Far Enough Farm on Centre Island — and any additional funds required to keep High Park Zoo operational — if he has control of the naming rights. View full article »

Hello friends, it’s been quite some time since i wrote something a little more personal. Sometimes, it’s easier to write about others and their troubles and remove yourself from the spotlight to regroup. Maybe you won’t want to read, maybe you will. Maybe it’ll mean something to you or maybe it’ll just be the ramblings of some stranger. I happened across this saying on a facebook friend’s status and found myself (internally) pumping fist in the air and shrieking at the top of my lungs (again internally) the words “DAMN STRAIGHT!!” in reaction to the “I Choose” spiel that i had just read. But then, i began to think to myself that there was some sort of cosmic pull or some time shift (sorry, admitted trekkie fan over here) holding me back. Realizing that it was my inner self ruining my “AHA” moment, i felt myself getting superbly pissed of at my overzealous psyche horning in on all those warm and fuzzy feelings. But then, like a punch in the gut, View full article »

Five Lies That Are Relationship Killers

When you’re a child, little white lies are a normal and expected way of how we discover what’s morally right and wrong. Moving into adulthood,, the lies often become excuses for our own shortcomings. Even the small, insignificant white lies become a problem when interacting with a spouse or a partner; trust and respect will always suffer, leading into many other destructive thoughts and feelings  in that relationship. Here are five of the most common relationship lies.

1. Intimacy will satisfy my unhappiness.  View full article »

Is Facebook Ruining Your Relationship?

Over 30% of all divorces are directly related to Facebook.

Social networking; the great way to keep in touch and communicate with people all over the world. Social networking: the death of the relationship? There are more and more reports of Facebook as the leading cause of a divorce. The statistics are showing over 30% of all divorces are caused by…you guessed it…Facebook or some other social networking site.

There are so many positives to connecting with the global masses and bringing people closer who you’ve lost touch with, that the negatives are soon forgotten until they are too late to recoup the damages.

Here are some of the negatives that impact relationships in an extremely damaging way:

Insecurities - Those that are already insecure become insecure ten-fold View full article »

Much has been said about the elder Shafia’s bizaare sense of “honour” and protection of the family name; but let us not forget the victims who have paid the ultimate price.

The three teen sisters and their “second mom” were found in a submerged car in the Kingston Mills lock on June 20, 2009. The system had failed the teens who had reached out to various people for help View full article »

Jurors have returned with a verdict of first degree murder for all three Shafia family members in a trial which has shocked and horrified many.

Mohammad Shafia and his wife Tooba Yahya, along with their eldest son Hamed have been found guilty in the planned extermination of four family members, three of which were their children.

Three teens, Zainab, 19, Sahar, 17, and Geeti Shafia, 13 along with a woman they considered a second mother, Rona Mohammad Amir, 52, were found View full article »

Four Women Killed – Trial of Family Members Begins

The murder trial of family members involved in the deaths of three sisters and a female relative, whose car was found submerged in the locks at Kingston Mills, Ontario began last week.

Zainab, Sahar and Geeti, respectively 19, 17 and 13 were discovered in the car pulled from the water along with their father’s first wife, Rona Amir Mohammad. Charged in the murder are Mohammed Shafia, father of the three sisters. View full article »

It appears that Noel Biderman is trying to save the flailing image of Ashley Madison once again. He’s failed to have the Toronto Transit Commission put the Ashley Madison  logo along the entire fleet of buses. He’s failed at the putting ads on the Super Bowl games. He’s long been accused of having fake women responding to the men on the site. The site charges for men, but the women get a “free ride” in order to have actual women on the site.

But to his credit, this sleaze-ball is persistent. View full article »

ABC’s 20/20 Segment – Aired June 2011

This segment talks about the Kelley Cahill ordeal featured on ABC’s “We Find Them”. Demonstrating one more reason that www.cheateralert.com should be a part of all of our lives – good relationships or bad; they all need cheateralert.com

http://abcnews.go.com/2020/video/blinded-love-kelley-cahills-ordeal-13927622

As I sift through the what I now know was a sham of a life I had with Onion Boy, more times than not, I find myself wondering WHY the need for all the lies. They’re so multi-layered, that it’s hard to relay them in a lucid and understandable manner.

The ability to fabricate and lie View full article »

Amid Disbelief; The Ruling is Not Guilty

Caylee, age 2, whose body was recovered late 2008.

The news rocked the world following the “not guilty” ruling of Casey Anthony today in a Florida courtroom.

The mother of slain 2 year old Caylee, who went missing in 2008, will walk away from the death penalty and the first degree murder charge. The media and trial followers have been riveted by the proceedings. Alleging everything from accidental drowning to accusations of molestation; View full article »

Skyy John On Cheating

 

The layers of deception run deep; outwardly you would be none the wiser

Random snippets of real life drama with an ex-husband who lived to lie and cheat and cover his tracks and situations where he financially, emotionally and physically abused. As in many things in life, the truth was buried…buried deep within the layers of the infamous cheater who we will call Onion Boy (O.B. for short). We will strip away the layers for all to see the loser is not the victim but the man who believes he can lie so well that he will never be caught…

During the Onion Boy days; the time spent as a family was few View full article »

The Facade

They are the crimes that make us look at our partners and wonder if they are also capable of such atrocities. The horrid and unsettling acts that make us double-check the locks and make us agree to the telemarketers that call about the security system installations. They make us question our neighbours and close friends. View full article »

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