A girl was out with friends having drinks on King St (in Toronto). This guy approaches her and won’t leave her alone – saying how cute she is. She finally gives in and hands the guy her business card to get rid of him.
These are the TWO voicemails this guy left.
This goes down in the history books – especially the second voice mail.
After hearing them you can clearly see why she didn’t call him back – instead she called in to a local radio station & had them play this on the air.
It’s a sad state of affairs, when the person that you would have and did quite literally everything for, becomes the object of fear and loathing. It was NO easy feat to arrive at this point, let me tell you. But, nevertheless, here I am. I was a pawn surely and completely from the second I walked into his life as a 15 year old. Now that he’s 46and after a life of abusing, manipulating and cheating on women, I find myself wondering if he has ANY boundaries whatsoever. It’s very concerning when you consider the women he’s encountered in his life, what he’s done to destroy them and the ones that he has yet to suck into his black hole of need. Read more »
The brand spankin’ new ”Distracted Drivers” ban came into effect today. Whether or not this will help the myriad of distractions that drivers face while behind the wheel we’ll have to wait and see. Preliminary statistics show that the accident percentage of those using hands-free devices is actually every bit as high as the hand held percentage. Unfortunately in this day and age there are too many other distracting problems that people have behind the wheel; it just not cell phones. The ban includes any hand-held device such as mp3 players too, but what about the fatigued or preoccupied driver? Are they not every bit as dangerous on the road?
Initially, when this talk of the new law started, I was thinking that it would seriously cramp the style of those persons who conduct their affairs via their cell phone….but then the push came to swing everyone over to the hands-free contraptions that are mandatory for those in sales or wanting to keep in touch with the office. I wonder how much the common cheater is affected by the ongoing juggling match to keep all their “affairs” in order? How do they keep it straight in their minds without running someone off the road. If we’re looking at my ex for example. (My apologies, when I’m looking for bad examples to illustrate, he pops into my mind) Read more »
It’s amazing how available we make our souls in this day and age. Nobody is unaware totally that there are persons lurking around out there who will happily trade our souls and good faith and cash it in for their own gains. I’m not talking about relationships where there is a balance of give and take, but rather the ones in which you give, give, give. Read more »
I found in this process of dealing with the woes of the past that I kept coming up against the same old mental blocks. If you’ve been following the blog, you will know that my ex was rather fond of not giving straight answers and in many instances telling almost total fabrications with just enough truth to keep you guessing. Maybe the proper word is second-guessing. That was an ongoing pattern for almost the entire time I knew this man and still would be today had I not taken matters into my own hands. Read more »
One of the hardest things to let go of for me was the feeling of failure that I had over the failure of my marriage. True it was not my fault that my ex had a sociopathic lifestyle; however I would often re-visit how I could have done things differently. As a teen was I too innocent and was my self-esteem so low that I couldn’t see the writing on the wall with my relationship to him? Or was it simply the case that I loved too much and too blindly? When I look back now almost 30 years later, Read more »
Finally two years later, the much debated story of whether or not John Edwards is the baby daddy of his mistress’ child has been confirmed by his camp. It cannot help but make one wonder at the complexities of this kind of arrangement. In the age of the internet and the sheer publicity of this affair; how will that child understand the news clips for the last two years of John Edwards denying that this child is his child. Will that not have a negative impact on the life of this child at some point. Low self-esteem is often an issue that raises its head at some point in a person’s life. How, when faced with the truth that her father lied or denied his involvement, will that affect her as she matures? Other issues such as his own children and wife hearing about how beautiful his new daughter is will be hurtful. All things aside; this family has endured the loss of a son and a battle with terminal cancer. What kind of a man piles this kind of hurt on top of that?
Every now and then the National Enquirer gets something right. For months, the allegations have been flying about the extra-marital affair that Senator John Edwards had while his wife Elizabeth was fighting a courageous battle with cancer. Here is the ABC nightline interview aired in 2008 in which John finally stops denying the rumours…..but have we yet to hear the full truth? Will we ever know the truth or will we be stuck in the twilight zone hearing only John Edward’s version of the truth…
This term has become commonly used both by laymen and by the judicial system. It commonly refers to the parent who is not contributing monetarily to their child’s custodial parent. It’s true there are many men and some women out there who feel that the rules don’t apply to them; but there are some justifiably who cannot afford to pay child support in the conventional sense. Perhaps they give when they have it or actively share in the extra expenses. Read more »
I was in a long-term relationship with a man for many years. (thankfully I’m with an amazing guy now) If those around me in his family would have told me the truth a long time ago, I could have spared myself and my family a ton of hurt brought on by this man. They kept from me, abuse issues with other women, numerous infidelities, thefts and embezzlement to name but a few.
Started this blog ’cause I’m sick of seeing liars and cheats get away with their dirty business and never have to “pay the piper”. I know this first-hand, unfortunately. My ex, is on the loose, in Mississauga Ontario. Whether he was married, engaged, single; he was always the player that was looking for the next victim. He lied to, he stole from, he will abuse (both mentally and physically) if it suits his purposes and he has cheated on every woman in his life. EVERY woman….including the young woman he’s marrying in a month.
If this blog can help even one woman and spare her the hurt that I went through, then my words will not have been in vain.
Being the victim of deception sucks! This is a blog to put an end to the lies and manipulation; we deserve better than a partner that goes out of their way to bring pain, torment and abuse to our lives!
I was in a long-term relationship with a man for many years. (thankfully I’m with an amazing guy now) If those around me in his family would have told me the truth a long time ago, I could have spared myself and my family a ton of hurt brought on by this man. They kept from me, abuse issues with other women, numerous infidelities, thefts and embezzlement to name but a few.
